5 Reasons Your Cat Sleeps With You

5 Reasons Your Cat Sleeps With You

When it's time to sleep many people get into their bed and find company: their cat. They don't know why but almost every night their furry friend will sleep next to them. Are you one of these people? The truth is that it is quite relaxing and pleasant to sleep with the company of a cat, but why do they come to sleep with us? Comfort, company and warmth are some of the reasons your cat sleeps with you. But there are other motives behind your cat wanting a snuggle.

If you want to know the 5 reasons why your cat sleeps with you do not miss this article from AnimalWised. However, it is important to remember that it is not always ideal for your cat to sleep in the same bed. If you want to have boundaries, you can find ways to have your cat sleep in their own bed.

1. For the warmth

Cats love the heat. If you look, they are always looking for the warmest places to hide and spend some quiet time. Near the stove, between the cushions or in any corner where the sun is setting. So it's no wonder that your cat catches you at bedtime and wants you to warm them up to be even more comfortable.

If you live in a particularly cold region, your cat's fur (even if they are a long-haired cat) might not be enough for them. They may find it difficult to sleep in other parts of the home. Your body will act like a radiator and they will enjoy being close to you. A cat may only want to sleep by your side, but they may also try to lie on top of you. This can be distracting, but if you're not a restless sleeper in might be a match made in sleepy heaven.

2. Comfort, first and foremost

Although playful and at times very active, the truth is that cats are lazy and can sleep up to 15 hours a day. Although they can lie down in the most unexpected places, they will obviously be more comfortable sleeping in a fluffy bed. So one of the reasons your cat sleeps with you is simply for comfort.

As we stated above, it is not necessarily the most comfortable arrangement for your if your cat wants to sleep in the same bed. You might have instances where the cat is trying to get comfortable by moving around the bed and, by extension, you. You may want to ensure your cat has as comfortable a bed as you do, even if it is on a smaller scale.

3. You provide security

Although they seem relaxed, cats are in constant alertness, and can jump at the slightest strange thing you do. The relationship with your cat is very important, you probably consider them one of the family. So, they like to sleep with you to feel safer and more relaxed. If they lower their guard and rest by your side is because they feel very safe next to you.

Some people think that cats are nocturnal, but they are in fact crepuscular. This means they are most awake during the twilight hours. When night falls, they may want some extra security. This is one of the reasons cats want to sleep with you and is a leftover from their wild past when they would need to be extra careful when sleeping.

4. They are territorial

Maybe one of the reasons your cat sleeps with you is because they think the bed is theirs and it is them letting you sleep there. The upside of this is that your cat has enough attachment and trust in you to let you sleep next to them.

Your cat's territorial behavior doesn't always present itself obviously. When they rub their body against your legs or push their facer into yours, it can seem like a simple sign of affection. While affection is a part of it, it is also a way they can leave their scent on you thanks to glands on their face. When your cat comes into your bed and rubs against you, they are claiming both you and your bed for their own. They may also try to use their claws to scratch your bed clothes which is another aspect of marking.

5. They love you

Yes, cats can seem very antisocial and independent, but that's just a facade. The truth is that the cat also likes company and, especially if you spend a lot of time away from home, they will miss you deeply.

Cats usually lie down together to get warm and comfy. So if your cat rubs, kneads, licks and lies down with you, they consider you as another cat. This is a sign of a very healthy relationship with your cat, one of security and love.

Is it good to sleep with your cat?

Sleeping with your cat has its advantages and disadvantages. While your feline might be your best friend, it is not always something which will be good fore you and your daily routine, especially if you are not the best sleeper. This is something which scientists have also been interested in studying. A report from 2018 in the journal Anthrozoös investigated the effects sleeping with pets had on people. It is not a conclusive report and further study is needed, but they did see a trend in people suggesting dogs had less of a negative impact on sleeping patterns than cats[1].

This can help us to look at the pros and cons of sleeping with your cat. Here are some of the findings as well as general considerations:

  • Disruption: the study found that cats were found to be “equally as disruptive as human partners, and were associated with weaker feelings of comfort and security than both human and dog bed partners”. However, this also depended on the individual animal. Some cats may be less likely to get up and sleep in distracting positions than others. Some cats, for example, enjoy sleeping on a person's head or feet, while others may be content to sleep peaceably beside their human pals.
  • Hygiene: it will also depend on the activity of your cat. If your cat is an outdoor cat, they may pick up dirt or even parasites outside. This is not ideal for bringing into your bed. Indoor cats are generally more protected, but it is still important to ensure they are dewormed and vaccinated if you want to let them sleep with you.
  • Allergies: some people have mild cat allergies which are not exacerbated during the day. However, if a cat is sleeping in your bed, they may exacerbate allergies and lead to sleep problems.
  • Activity: if your cat is an active (or even a hyperactive) cat, then they may find it difficult to sleep still. If you have work to get up for in the morning, it might not be ideal for them to share a bed.
  • Health: while some cats might be disruptive, it is important to remember that cats can have a positive impact on our health and well-being. One study found that cat owners were “less likely to take medication for sleeping problems than non-pet owners”[2]. Having a cat sleep next to you might actually help you get a better night's sleep, but it will depend on individual circumstances.
  • Bond: your cat sleeping next to you shows that they are comfortable. Allowing them into your bed might be a good way for you and your cat to strengthen your bond as it shows a closeness.
  • Hair: especially if you have a long hair cat, they might molt in your bed. This will occur more in the shedding period of cats, so bear that in mind if it is something which might become a problem.

There are many reasons why a cat will want to sleep with you and vice versa. It is up to your if you think it will be a good idea for you (and anyone else who might be in the bed at the time).

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1 https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/08927936.2018.1529354

2 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3408111/