How to Calm a Male Dog When a Female Is in Heat

Josie F. Turner
By Josie F. Turner, Journalist specialized in Animal Welfare. Updated: June 18, 2024
How to Calm a Male Dog When a Female Is in Heat

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When a female dog is in heat, it can make their pet care needs more difficult. Their psychological state can be anxious, but they may also become aggressive. When you have male dogs in the home or you are taking the dog out for a walk, your main concern may be keeping male dogs under control when they sense a female in heat. This is mainly a practical issue as the attention of male dogs can prove distracting. If your dog is not neutered, having sex can lead to unwanted pregnancy in dogs. This can mean a much greater responsibility as a pet owner. If you are unable to meet this responsibility, it can put more strain on already overburdened shelter and adoption systems.

This is why AnimalWised provides ways on how to calm a male dog when a female is in heat so that you can help avert a difficult situation for everyone.

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  1. Is my dog in heat?
  2. How do male dogs act around females in heat?
  3. Keeping the scent under control
  4. Doggie pants for females in heat
  5. Change their walking schedule
  6. Products to cover up the scent
  7. Proligestone injections for dogs in heat
  8. Expend their pent up energy in a healthy way
  9. The importance of neutering dogs

Is my dog in heat?

Before we learn how to control a male dog in heat, we need to know the female's reproductive status. While all mammals have similar reproductive organs, they do not all work in the same way. If they did, it would take dogs 9 months to birth puppies and quintuplets would be much more common in humans. While humans have a menstrual cycle, canines have an estrus cycle. When a dog is in the estrus stage of this cycle, we refer to them as being ‘in heat’.

The stages of the heat cycle in dogs are as follows:

  1. Proestrus: although it can be difficult to detect, the dog's vulva should become inflamed and there may be some discharge. This discharge may have a little blood which is why some people think dogs have ‘periods’.
  2. Estrus: the true ‘heat’ stage when the dog is at their most fertile and feeling the most compelled to mate. The dog ovulates due to high estrogen levels and they will seek out a male for up to 21 days after the beginning of proestrus.
  3. Diestrus: this is the period after mating, determining if the dog will indeed become pregnant.
  4. Anestrus: this is the period when the dog is no longer fertile and they will, correspondingly, be uninterested in finding a male to mate.

Does neutering calm male dogs?

It is natural for a male to seek out a female when they are in heat. They are simply responding to their natural desire to procreate and continue their species. The behavior of both male and female dogs can be erratic and males will also compete with other males for the opportunity to mate. This leads some people to ask, do males go into heat?

Male dogs do not go into heat. A female will go into heat an average of twice a year, the only time during which they are interested in mating. Male dogs can mate at any time of the year and will look for any opportunity to do so. This is not the case if they have been castrated. By neutering the dog, you remove the organs which produce sex hormones and remove their sex drive in the process.

How do male dogs act around females in heat?

Some neighborhoods allow you to have a dog which can run around with relative freedom. They may be well-behaved dogs which will generally stay near your property and don't bother your neighbors. This can be the case whether your dog is male or female. There are many benefits, such as allowing the dog to relieve themselves without needing your physical presence, having more access to exercise and providing an enriched environment to meet their needs.

Unfortunately, whether you have a male or female dog, being outside can also lead to problems. Their freedom may be good for the dog, but it may not be something your neighbors will appreciate. When you have a female dog in heat, this is particularly the case. Even if your dog is well behaved, there is always the chance their hormonal changes will lead to erratic behavior which causes problems for your otherwise quiet community.

They may be more aggressive to people they know, as well as strangers. If there are children present, in particular, this can lead to seriously negative consequences for which you as a pet owner will bear responsibility. There is also the issue of other male dogs. Male dogs attracted to a female in heat will also exhibit negative behavior.

If you have a female dog in heat, controlling a male dog around them can be very difficult. Male dogs may come over to your property, be destructive or rile up your pet. Male dogs are also particularly territorial during this time, so they may often urinate on your property. Of course, there is also the possibility of the dog becoming pregnant.

If your dog is in heat, letting them outside alone and unsupervised should be avoided. It can lead to many problems, many of which you may not expect if you have never seen your dog's behavior during this time. You should not have a free-roaming dog at any point. There are many dangers and factors which can make this a bad idea, even the simple possibility of becoming lost.

Female dog in heat behavior is not necessarily as aggressive, but they will be signaling their need to reproduce. The physical signs of their heat cycle are explained above, but their behavior can also change. They may:

  • Urinate more often
  • Become either lazier or more boisterous
  • Be confused
  • Become more affectionate and look for interactions
  • Raise their rump when males are around

As you can see, the two dogs are acting together. To prevent unwanted pregnancy, it is vital we keep the male dog away from the female. However, if you are the guardian of a female dog, the responsibility of birthing and rearing the pups will fall to you.

Learn more about female dogs in heat with our article on when dogs go into heat again after having puppies.

How to Calm a Male Dog When a Female Is in Heat - How do male dogs act around females in heat?

Keeping the scent under control

Hygiene in the home is especially important when you have a female dog in heat. Although you may not be able to perceive it, they leave their scent all over the place. This is a hidden sign of their sexual cycle. If you have a male dog in the home, this scent alone can cause them to get overexcited and exhibit their own behavioral problems such as mounting other dogs.

As dogs have such a prodigious sense of smell, keeping this scent under control as much as possible is imperative. It may be enough to control a male dog around a female in heat. If a male and female dog live in the same home, you need to keep them in separate areas of the home. This also means preventing them from using the same materials such as blankets and dog beds.

Cleaning the common areas thoroughly will also help to keep their hormones under control and prevent destructive behavior. It may be enough to calm the male dog if they cannot smell the female's pheromones.

Doggie pants for females in heat

You may think it a little strange, but dog underwear is becoming more widely accepted in the canine care community. This acceptance is so much so that pet stores have started to stock specially made doggie pants for the purpose of keeping female dogs healthy during heat periods. They are many styles and types which can be used for both male and female dogs to help with incontinence as well as a female dog's estrus cycle.

However, you don't need to buy special dog underwear if you want to control male dogs around a female dog in heat. Human underwear can be adapted to make doggie pants by either cutting holes or affixing with safety pins. A pad similar to human sanitary napkins can be placed in the underwear so that it absorbs secretions as well as helping to mask the smell. They should also help work as a form of birth control if male dogs tried to mount them.

Read our article on smells dogs hate to find other odors to mask the smell.

How to Calm a Male Dog When a Female Is in Heat - Doggie pants for females in heat

Change their walking schedule

Changing your dog's walking times can be a very practical solution to this problem. The best time to walk your dog is the quieter hours of the day. You can take a female dog in heat out for a walk without having to worry about male dogs bothering them. Your dog may normally be very happy to run around off leash without a problem. However, when they are in heat, it is recommended you keep them on leash.

The reason for keeping female dogs in heat on leash is for both their benefit and others. Doing so helps you keep them calm in the presence of male dogs, as well as helping them to evade the dog's attention. It also means other dogs and people are kept safe from potentially aggressive behavior during this time.

Products to cover up the scent

As we stated before, keeping male dogs calm in the presence of female dogs in heat is greatly helped by keeping the scent under control. To help meet this end, there are some other commercially available products which may help. These include anti-odor smells which mask the smell and keep male dogs distracted. Their effectiveness may differ, but they are all designed to help mask or neutralize the pheromones emitted during the heat period. These include methanol scents, similar to Vicks Vaporub which is used for cold related treatments.

Proligestone injections for dogs in heat

Speak to your veterinarian about other medical options which may be able to help keep a dog in heat from being bothered. These include injections designed to regulate the heat cycle. The most common drug for this purpose is known as proligestone which is sold under the brand names of Delvosteron[1] and Covinan. While these drugs can be effective in controlling the estrus cycle of dogs, they are more often used to treat dogs with related problematic issues such as hypersexuality.

Proligestone has been used to treat other health issues in dogs such as problems related to dwarfism in German shepherds[2]. These studies, however, have shown the possibility of adverse side effects. These include obesity, problems with their coat and insulin related issues. These treatments also come in pill form.

These treatments are often used for animals which are too old to go under sterilization surgery. Not only are they expensive options, their use could be detrimental to your a pet's quality of life. If you do want to consider using these treatments, it is very important you speak to your veterinarian first.

How to Calm a Male Dog When a Female Is in Heat - Proligestone injections for dogs in heat

Expend their pent up energy in a healthy way

If you have a male dog near a female dog in heat, whether looking after a dog for a friend or having these pets grow up together, keeping them calm and distracted can take time. As female dogs have a relatively short period of heat during a year, it can mean male dogs get particularly aggressive in trying to assert dominance when waiting to mate.

As a dog owner, taking your dog out and helping them expend this aggressive energy can be the best way to keep them under control. Make sure you walk them properly, as well as provide them with education and training to keep certain behavior in check. Engage in intelligence games and do what you can to make a female dog the last thing on their mind. This is, unfortunately, much easier said than done.

The importance of neutering dogs

The last piece of advice we have is the one you should consider first. Unless you are a professional dog breeder with the knowledge and resources to look after puppies, neutering in the form of spaying or castration is recommended. Not only does it prevent unwanted pregnancy, but it keeps your dog's general health in check.

The psychological state of female and males dogs is also improved after neutering. It keeps their hormones under control and allows them to enjoy other aspects of life.

In female dogs spaying is the removal of ovaries and uterus, causing them to no longer be in heat. There may still be some symptoms of the heat cycle which present. This can cause male dogs to think the dog is in heat. There is also the issue of false pregnancies, whereby the dog's physiology creates pregnancy symptoms without actually being pregnant.

For both female and male dogs, neutering is the best course of action if you want to control male dogs around a female in heat. Not only does neutering calm male dogs, but it also provides the benefits we explained above. It will often make the previous steps in this article unnecessary as it takes care of the problem before it occurs.

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1. MSD Animal Health. (2010). DELVOSTERON. Retrieved November 15, 2019, from

2. Knottenbelt, C. M., & Herrtage, M. E. (2002). Use of Proligestone in the Management of Three German Shepherd Dogs with Pituitary Dwarfism. Journal of Small Animal Practice, 43(4), 164-170.

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my lil dog gets hyper around my friends female dog when shes around an my male dog is always trying to sniff her butt an he aint fixed
Linda phillips
Have a new male how can I control around dog in heat with simple house hold item
Administrador AnimalWised
Hi Linda,

We're not sure what you mean about a ‘simple household item’. Could you please elaborate and we'll try to help you. Otherwise, you can follow the advice in the article for some practical assistance. Good luck!
Dana Brown
Have never heard of it causing the dog to get diarrhea when female is in heat.so I don't think so.
Can make dog get dirreah when he senses female in heat?
Administrador AnimalWised
Sorry Pam, we don't understand this question. Can you help us out by providing more context?
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